“Why Does It Always Rain on Me?!”

Even though I know that there are few emotions more worthless, disabling, and pathetic than self-pity, especially if it is allowed to become chronic, I still struggle to “avoid the snares” of that particular devil. If left unnamed and unchecked, self-pity can metastasize into full-blown depression.

“Somebody That I Used to Know”

“We must choose to remember that we were all Americans before we were Democrats or Republicans, before we were pro-this or pro that, before we were red states and blue states. That is the common ground on which we can “all get along” and continue to “form a more perfect Union.” That is the proper interpretation of “America First,” not the way it is typically distorted to mean “America Only.”

A Canary in the Catholic Coal Mine

I want to feel welcome in the church of my fathers and my upbringing, and I want to be a good Catholic if that means following the teachings of Jesus. But I’m finding myself wanting less and less to be a member of a church in which too many of its leaders and followers are more interested in turning back the clock to a time of women in veils and the Tridentine mass than meeting the needs of a modern, pluralistic, well-educated, and thinking constituency.